Lawrence Martin Drephal
October 27, 1952 - November 03, 2021
Lawrence Martin Drephal
October 27, 1952 - November 03, 2021
Lawrence Drephal was born in New London, Wisconsin on October 27, 1952, and entered into eternal life in Nashville, Tennessee on November 3, 2021 at the age of 69.
Larry came from humble beginnings on a dairy farm north of Black Creek, Wisconsin where he was a 4H member and showed his heifer Daisey, of whom he was very proud.
Despite his rural beginnings, Larry was a natural at electronics and was a construction worker at heart. At the age of 16, he began his career in construction by burying underground telephone lines. Larry married and moved to Wyoming where he operated heavy equipment and performed other duties at a stone quarry and was a part-time judge in civil cases. When work slowed down, Larry moved his family back to Wisconsin, where he installed carpet with his brother-in-law, Steve Wallace.
At the urging of his friends Mike and Marva Clutter, Larry moved to Arizona and found his calling in fiber optics. He began installing fiber with CMA and learned all the positions necessary to run the company. He was also proud to install the streetlights in Mesa, Arizona. His work ethic was “Do it right, or don’t do it at all”, and he followed that rule throughout his life. He took pride in doing work that people said couldn’t be done, such as lowering a manhole in Phoenix, Arizona. Engineers said it couldn’t be done and no engineer would touch it, but Larry performed the work to perfection.
During the time that Larry was working fiber optics, he suffered a serious leg injury which might have defeated a lesser man. He refused amputation and after 17 surgeries and 5 years on crutches, Larry overcame the injury. He stayed with his friends Mike and Marva during this time, and Marva helped both Larry and her husband, who was also sidelined with an injury. They were family to Larry and he was family to them.
In 2003 Larry, along with Stan Klopfenstein, Betty Daily, and Jessica Zubord, bought CMA and changed the name to AFB.
In 2001, Larry married Charlotte Jones. Charlotte became ill with cancer, and her half-sister JoAnn McGuffie went to Arizona to help Charlotte during her illness. JoAnn didn’t want to go unless she could take her best friend Barbara Stewart. Together they helped Char through her illness, and Charlotte passed in 2005. Larry remained close to JoAnn and eventually began to correspond with Barbara. On November 4, 2007, Larry and Barbara married and resided in Big Sandy, Tennessee.
Larry and Barbara were married at Bakers Chapel Church and were very active with the church. Larry did the church’s banking, bookkeeping, bulletins, building maintenance, and set up the Christmas tree each year. He enjoyed going to church conferences and learning the business of the United Methodist Church.
Larry was a master of many trades, and after he retired, he began working with leather. He was proud to make customized gun holsters for big-name cowboys as well as local gun owners and others through a company he supplied. He could make anything of leather, including cell phone cases, checkbook covers, cell phone holders, belts, and wallets.
Larry loved the outdoors and was an avid fisherman. He had no big fish stories but still loved the sport. He loved to dabble in electronics and fixed computers for anyone who asked. He also enjoyed riding his lawnmower and cutting the lawn.
Larry was always excited about spending time with his son, Larry Jr., his daughter, Nicole, and his grandson, Ethan. They enjoyed activities such as fishing and playing games together. A very special time prior to his illness was a trip to Disney World with Barbara, Nicole, and Ethan, and a trip with Larry Jr. to the Great Smoky Mountains National Park.
The family gives special thanks to Barbara’s lifelong friends, JoAnn McGuffie and Nancy Melton, to Johnny and Julie Cornelius for the support and friendship, along with all the dear friends too many to mention at Bakers Chapel Methodist Church.
Larry is survived by his wife, Barbara; son: Lawrence Drephal Jr.; daughter: Nicole Drephal; grandson: Ethan Wolter of Appleton, WI; and mother: Mary Fenske (Harvey) of Fremont, Wisconsin.
He is also survived by brothers: Fred (Deb) Drephal of Tomahawk, WI, Harlow (Tari) Drephal of New London, WI, Dan (Jennifer) Drephal of Kaukauna, WI, Harlan (Chris) Drephal of New London, WI; stepbrothers: Mike Fenske and Russell (Joan) Fenske of Fremont, WI, Dean (Tara) Fenske of Merrill, WI; brother-in-law: Terry Rushing of Big Sandy, TN; sister-in-law: Pat (Steve) Magliano of California; sisters: Ginny (Steve) Wallace of Kaukauna, WI, Rae (Kenny) Gorges of New London, WI, Colleen (Tim) Middleton of Florida; stepsisters: Julie (Rick) Hansen of Fremont, WI, Debbie (Tim) Carpenter, Linda (Jim) Johnson, Terri Marcks, Kathy (Al) Woodford of Green Bay, WI; stepson: Gordon Stewart; and granddaughter: Jordan Stewart of Michigan.
Larry also leaves behind many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and many friends.
Larry was preceded in death by his father, Harlow Drephal; stepmother: Eunice Drephal; paternal and maternal grandparents; step-brother: David Geurts of MO; step-sister-in-law: Julie Fenske; and infant brother: Mark Drephal.
Larry was blessed to have so many friends and family members that they cannot all be listed here, and we may not have known some. He treasured his friends and family above all else, and if we have inadvertently omitted someone, we hope you will not doubt your importance in his life.
Cremation Society of Tennessee is assisting the family with arrangements.
4 responses to Lawrence Martin Drephal
Ginny Wallace says:
November 12, 2021
Larry my brother. You leave me with such a big whole in my heart that feels like it many never heal. The reaching out to you and you to me, sharing so much of life and illness. The honesty with each other and the ability to get angry back and still love unconditionally. Our hard work as kids doing chores before school, eat fast and continue our day. The helping with bailing hay, all those chores that maybe we didn’t like so much then but found such appreciation later in life. Created us who we are and such a great appreciation good and bad that helped shape us. Growing up how close we were. Continued that unique bond with me and the uniqueness with all the other brothers and sister. How special you were to each of us. I love you Larry! You leave us many gifts of memories. As the wind blows across my cheek, the leaves fall, certain smells, so many things I can’t mention all……….will always remind me of you! Rest my brother. Dance like you never have, breathe without difficulty, run to me when I come……until we unite again……….Love Ginny
Harvey and Mary Fenske says:
November 15, 2021
Being Larry’s mom, I have 69 years of memories. I’ll keep them all in my heart. There are two great memories that I would like to share. While living in Kimberly, and Larry was about 15, I came home from work one day and he had our lawn mower completely dismantled and all the pieces were in a bushel basket. My brother Marty happened to stop over and said “Mary Mary why do you let him do that?, it will never work again.” I just replied “No problem, it didn’t work anyway”.
The next night when I came home from work, to my delight, Larry was cutting lawn with the bushel of parts I saw the day before. The first person I called was Marty to give him the good news. It was then I realized that I had a pretty smart kid.
A funny memory is when , after the many years on crutches and at this time was using just one crutch, the doctor told him to not let anything happen to that leg. If he injured it, he (the doctor) might not be able to save it. Harvey, Larry and I were panning for gold in Arizona. The vehicles were parked on the top of a steep embankment. We were taking our equipment down to the creek. We used bushes and roots to help us get to the top of the embankment. Larry was going up to the truck and one of the roots he was pulling himself up with, broke. and the next thing we saw was Larry sliding down the hill on his butt with his leg up in the air. When he got up with a big grin on his face, he said “but I didn’t hurt my leg”.
Larry, We miss you, but Thanks for the memories. Love Mom
Steve Wallace says:
November 24, 2021
Larry my buddy. I have so many memories and laughs. To many to share. But our childhood friendship when you moved to Kimberly, Wi. All the crazy things we did. How times changed. We sure couldn’t repeat some of them. (ha,ha) Regardless lasting memories. How about when all of us guys from here rented a couple vans and went to the Nascar races in AZ. You took us out to the airport because you were working on all the LED lighting on the runways for all the planes. I was impressed. Holy cow, you showed a card and out we were onto the runways to where all your guys were working. It was cool to be on a runway. Just so many memories. Rest in peace Larry my friend. Always your best buddy Steve….
Steve Wallace says:
November 25, 2021
I have so many memories to share but to many to mention here. Buddies when you moved to Kimberly, you were my neighbor and the lifetime best friend. Lot of good times, Lot of memories. Some probably not mentioned here because …….never get away with it in this day and age. How things and times have changed. Remember when we rented some vans and drove to you in AZ, maybe six of us and went to the Nascar race? Fun. Lot of laughs and good times. You took us to the airport because you were working on all the LED lights for the run ways when the planes came in. You whipped out your card and we were on the runway at the airport. Crazy. Run way …airport? Took us to where your guys were working actively working. Man the good times. I will sure miss the phone calls and our crazy conversations .
Rest in peace my buddy.